Why doesn’t ***** Sister talk to them anymore?
Since the answer was so universal in nature, I asked if i could share it unanimously as I felt it could help others too and they agreed. The answer is therefore below:
There are many reasons why siblings are brought together in any life time. Often these reasons are not clear until a person is mature enough spiritually to understand. When a person spends time developing their intuition and trusting it they become aware of the reasons behind it
Each sibling that comes together has their own journey to fulfil. Although from the same parents they are unique in their understanding of the universe and as such their perception of the world will never be the same as those they grow up with. They will be carrying imprints from previous lives which will be triggered by others without their realising it until they become aware of the pattern that is being created.
As an observer of their sister, ***** is able to see these patterns as their intuition is highly tuned in. By observing these patterns ***** has the ability to use discernment to help them to understand how that then may be reflected upon them. *****’s sister has no recognition that she is causing chaos in the lives of others as she goes through this lifetime for she is sitting in a cloud of judgement and difficulty about herself. This cloud is dragging her energies down and anyone who threatens it in any way is immediately sent away so that she can feel better about herself.
Until she realises there is a better life for her if she were to address this way of being she will continue to cut out those who cause her to feel discomfort about herself. To keep herself from falling into a deep dark hole she must find others who are like her so that she can feel at home with who she is. When she reaches a point of understanding that makes her uncomfortable with this behaviour she will begin to seek others who are fitting with her new ways. Since ***** is very opposite to her in many ways and shines a light that is brighter than hers, their sister cannot risk being around them in fear of being found out for who she really is at this time. She is not ready to see the scars of her battles of many lifetimes and to address them. So instead she buries her head and allows life to deliver whatever to her no matter how difficult that may be.
She is not alone in this type of behaviour. There are many who are in fear of seeing themselves truly as they are right now. it is not that there is anything wrong with them. Instead they are so crippled with pain that the pain is all they know. To chastise themselves is a reminder to stay in that zone of being for to be anything else right now would mean tremendous courage to make big steps to change. One day there may be an incident which occurs which allow them to see what is happening but not all will take advantage of it and so will continue to suffer some more.
For ***** the lesson is acceptance. To love their sister unconditionally as she is and to know that if at some point in the future she is ready to change, they will open their arms to her and allow her the possibility of reforming a loving relationship with them. She will have already shown***** aspects about them self that will have strengthened them and given them the opportunity to grow. So although all seems to be lost the gift has already been given and may be one day they will be able to return that gift with the love that her sister will be seeking when or if she chooses to see life differently.
Remember that all souls have free will. That to be who they are as they are is their right as a soul. It does not make them less loveable for love is all there is. It merely gives an opportunity to see life differently.